*DAILY DEW 21/MAY/2022* *RELATIONSHIPS & CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER* (VI) _Key Bible Text:_ *"Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man."* Colossians 4:6 (KJV)) _Bible Insight:_ SOME RED FLAGS to consider when considering a serious relationship or choice of a life partner:- 8. Loud-mouthed, not sensitive, & not considerate towards others? How do you talk to others? What attitude do you throw around? Are you sensitive about the feelings of others, especially those you don't like or take interest in or consider as a close friend? Being considerate only towards those you care about is not good enough. Are you the kind of partner or potential partner that is loquacious, insensitive and non accommodating? 9. The Purpose Factor. What do you want from life? What direction are you going in life? Do you know or have you discovered your God-given purpose? To be more convinced about your purpose, invest in books and prayers, and in the right circle of friends while keeping busy until you are certain of what direction God wants for you. Being idle or staying inactive or indecisive until you find your purpose may not help in finding your purpose. While praying and searching for your God given purpose, keep busy purposefully. 10. Unforgiveness & lies. Are you a habitual liar? Do you think lying is being smart? Are you that kind of partner? Do you wallow in forgiveness?! Are you quick to pick offense and when you do, do you take a longer time before you bring yourself to the point of forgiveness? What's your cool down or cool off rate after you have been offended and angered? How long do you stay before you begin to try to let go of anger, 24 or 48 hours or more? As a (potential) partner to a brother or sister out there, when you don't have a handle on these few mentioned factors and previous ones, you will make a poor choice of a partner. While looking for a good or right partner, work deliberately on being a great partner yourself! _MEDITATION:_ *“What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility.”* – Leo Tolstoy *#David_Joshua_Egbochuo_Esq* *#Saturday_wisdomforliving* *#Becoming_More_Like_Jesus* *#Year_of_Big_Favours* *#Daily_Dew_Devotional* *#Grace_For_Accomplishments* *#Hello_May* ❤ Links To Visit: *FB Pages* https://www.facebook.com/DavidJoshuaEgbochuo/ https://www.facebook.com/thedavidgen/ https://www.facebook.com/THEREVIVALCORPS/ *Telegram Group:* https://t.me/joinchat/NzXQlVc9Hx7LfaRSnh9fHg *WhatsApp Group:* http://bit.ly/The_David_Generation Feel Free to Share with Friends. God bless you.