FAMILY TIES We all start this life with a family, whether that family is composed of blood relatives, adopted parents or a Foster family. This family that we acquire when we are born influences every aspect of our lives, from the first moments to our last. We are under a love-regardless forum with everyone being attached as Family to you. Indirectly, we are stuck with the obligations of every individual there in. More so, family is not just a relationship. It is one of nature's masterpiece, it is made from the heart . Hence, family isn't about blood, it is the people in your life that wants you in their and accepts you for who you are. Being part of a family is very challenging because it comes with different responsibilities in every stage you attain. It worth more than being called a sister, brother, mother, or father. It is about making sacrifices even at your own detriment. Your family is your utmost priority no matter how distant you are from them. You should always act like a mirror, support each other dream and stand up for one another. The greatest thing in family life is to take hint when intended. I find it overwhelming when I see individual that are attached to their friends more than thier family. The only time they remember to appreciate their family members is during memorable events. Most of the times, we don't even know how to communicate with our family members which is absurd. We should learn how to create that get together with our family irrespective of the season, and bond between you and your family, make them feel appreciated. The most beautiful thing in this world is to see your family smiling and knowing that you're a reason behind that smile. Although family love is messy, clinging and of an annoying and repetitive pattern. We argue, we fall out and make up. We might not have it all together but together we have it all. Our life impacts should start from our family as charity begins at home. Share your strength and your fears With your family. Make your family your friend. Always make them feel happy to have you as part of them. In all, your family may not be the best but you can be the strengther of your family ties. â„¢ Omah writings #writinginpiration #onlinecounseling #myconsultancy #tlc ..

FRIEND ZONE Friendship is an extraordinary unique type of a feeling which is different from just love. friendship goes beyond just sharing time together and it is long lasting. It can be overwhelming making new companions, but it worth it in out well being These days, a lot of people have the mindset of doing more for dating than keeping friends. They tend to discard you if you are not in a relationship with them. You must date everyone that comes your way. it is okay to keep more of friends than sexual relationship. The true fact is that there are some kind of individual you need not to date just to get close to them. However, we feel that getting close to individuals especially your opposite sex tends to be for the sake of dating. Friendship goes far beyond any other relationship apart from family. We tend to build a new breed in ourselves other than that of the ones we make from our family and environment. So setting friendship is important for an overall well being. It is not so much about how many friends you have, but how valued they are. In other words, setting a hierarchy of friends helps you identify what to achieve and how to set goals in regarding friendship. You can categorize your friends into: [x]CLOSE FRIENDS : Those that you cherish time with, confide in, have a positive influence on you and brings out the best in you. [x]FAMILY FRIENDS ; Friends from family or relationships that you enjoy spending time with but not necessarily confide in. [x]ACQUAINTANCES ; They may be your collegues, classmates, neighbours, or schoolmates . You like them and sometimes meet them outside the usual place of acquaintance but don't normally spend lot of quality time with them. Using this as a starting point, helps you to balance your friend zone with people so as to learn how to manage friendship more than any other relationship. Having all this in mind, we tend to know how much and how well we could keep both our intimate relationship and that of our friends. #onlinecounselling #writinginspiration #Tlc..