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The most exciting newssss!!!
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Hope you are planning to walk down that red aisle with us?
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I'm super excited about thiss
Lagosians, are you ready?!!🎉🔥
Knock Knock!
Who's there?
Annie.
Annie who?
Ah-nid to tell y'all that the trailer for our movie project "A New Beginning" is finally out!
Kindly check on all our social media platforms especially YouTube to watch.
Or click on the link below.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2jT7Yxq_UY
Trust me, you are going to love it!ðŸ˜
Shout out to our able director @johnsoncrystalkalu and all the crew and casts that worked hard for this to happen.
It's definitely a new trial for us here at Hopeful Me but we remain open for new innovations and possibilities.💯🥂
Kindly anticipate the full movie soon!🎥..
Just dancing myself in..
Hope y'all understand the necessity for a welcome home dance?😅🎉
And oh, I promise to be faithful this time...or at least tryy😬
I love you guys so much!â¤ï¸
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Its a new year and the old has gone with the old.
I know this is a great time to start afresh and put those dreams to work.
Never think circumstances can shut down your imagination..it can only try to put a halt to its execution. However, we won't stop dreaming!!🥂
'Dreaming is an opening to our foresight; a beginning to an unknown end; a ray of hope in darkness; a drop of rain in dryness...
Its our only gateway to seeing ourselves soar beyond limitations and by that, we emerge the true sculpture of our artistic creation.'
Never dream less or be bullied into believing "it can't happen".
The point is not whether it can or cannot happen but that you are like a bird set free, whose feet lands on a land flowing with milk and honey
You are unstoppable, you are confident, you are brave, you are lovedâ¤ï¸
Don't think those dreams are too big or small.... for with God all things remain possible🔥
#HappyNewYear2021
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Hello!
Its been weeks😩😩
Hope we've been catching up great and the Christmas spirit has taken greater toll on us?
Its been a tough year but we are pulling through fine..â¤ï¸
So about today's write-up/video session,
The place of value can only be understood when you first find value or significant in a person or a thing.
There should be an acceptance of the fact that there is worth or respect attached to that person or thing...it's not meant to be back up lines or made up stories to make others feel they've been meaningful in your lives.
Having value or valuing should be related to finding worth or importance in what has been built over time. Saying it is another clear indication that you've known and come to accept that truth of their contribution in your advancement.
Stop this trend of glorifying relationships that are not worth glorifying or abusing the support and value people have placed on us or we on them.
Value is strong and irreplaceable (unless the value was lost over time or intentionally) and should be used in that light so people clearly cut people who are there to occupy space from people who have actually impacted into our lives; no matter how small.
Its important to note that people can value particular actions or gestures that best suits them and not the person on that light.
Its not right as sometimes it changes course to selfishness and self gratification.
On the other hand people sometimes do things that change lives but still keep themselves on points that would not attract value eg someone who lie or cheat over time can not be valued as a trusted person but his actions of philanthropy can be accepted and valued.
So value, my friends is relative but necessary in every sector if the world.
No time for liabilities!
To be valued, one must understand the place of value and how it works.
Don't sit around and wait for people to come value you...
Stand and create value for your self.
We each have things we consider valuable..
So let's not feel using that to buy people's trust or waste people's time makes the world any nicer.
Stand with true value for yourself and your future and understand the value of others in your life as we desire to be value... It seperates the wheat from the tars🥂
Thank you for liking,commenting and sharing this post..
God blessðŸ‘
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#sharevalue
#acceptvalue
#bevalued..
Most hurt,pain, anger, heart break and negative emotions are always geared towards one thing.....fallen expectations.
Sometimes we feel we've been wronged or not at fault in some problematic scenerios. Other times, we really don't understand how or what makes us feel that way. All we do know is that there was a certain way that person should have acted to suit you or relief you of that hurt you feel.
It's expectation simplified😌
We say "expectation" a couple of times without fully understanding what we really mean. This is to help you understand better.
Expectations are not really bad things as it is something every human must do in one way of the other. This is because life is filled with expectations(both realistic and unrealistic) and what makes it unusual is the fact that it doesn't always go the way we "expected" or "wanted".
This doesn't mean expectations on it's own are wrong. No, it is one element that cannot be removed from human relationships(even people and God have expectations). It only gets better when you realize expectations are only to be met on balance of probabilities and the result you feel is not because of the person who did whatever he /she shouldn't have done to you but that expectation you had of them to or to not do it.
Let's open our minds to this using this example;
A is best friends with B and it's A's birthday tomorrow.
It's only but normal for A to expect B to call and say lovely wishes.
When B failed to do so, A was hurt and sad.
Would you say B hurt A as to B being a person on his /her own?
Many would says yes, B hurt A(it's always the general answer and that's what the normal mind would interpret it asðŸ˜)
But guys,the answer is No. B didn't exactly hurt A as to B being a person on their own. It was A's "expectations" of B to call in as a "best friend" that hurt him/her.
Imagine if B was just a casual friend and A had no expectations?
It won't even count as offensive because nothing was expected, therefore, no need to get surprised ðŸ’.
Now, would you say it was wrong for A to have such expectations of B?
Of course not!
It was a right valid expectation that had a mutual and right foundation of cause.
So now you understand where I'm going...😎
Most disappointments are as a result of already set up expectations. It's left for you to take the next step to understand the reason for your pain (checking for what makes it a valid expectation and how to resolve it).
We'd have more video analysis as well as write-ups coming up on this topic..it's a big one!🔥
Stay tuned ðŸ˜
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#expectations
#realitiesoflife..