Normally before heading to work I always make sure I have everything as in every eatable for the day with me. Reason is, after battling with ulcer for years and being ignorant of it, and after taking some measures and being healed by God, I decided to be conscious of my health because heaven help those who help themselves. If it's my fruit day, I buy all my favorite fruits and water before boarding any bus. I may not that opportunity to go out once I enter office But this day, I had no money except my tfare so I was hoping on using the ATM or POS machine once I get to work and also wouldn't want to miss the first bus. As God may have it, I met one of my customers. I love buying fruit from her , she sells the best and fresh fruit. She is dark and from one part of igbo laikdat. If you know ikeja under bridge , you may know her. She sells close to close to akowonjo road and she is very neat. She was surprised when I greeted her and passed. "Aaah , nne kekwanu, see as you dey shine. You no go buy fruit today"? She asked with curiosity. I told her I didn't have money at the moment unless I can get a POS nearby. She smiled and asked the fruits I wanted I told her. She package them and handed them to me and her last statement surprised me "Shey you want to run away with my money, ha, I trust you nah, are you going to run away because of 250, even say na thousand sef, abeg take , you can give it to me tomorrow or any day". ===================================== Someone I met online sent me some money to buy stuff for her and send to her. I have never met her in person till today. I have asked several people especially those who I have never met but chose to do online transactions with me, why they trust people easily and the responses are always the same. "You have never given me room for doubts. If you are not intentional about what you do here and offline, my dear you better be! Even though betrayers don't have mark on their foreheads. Am writing this because someone complained that he can not do any business online because everybody is a suspect. Buyers are careful this days because of scammers. Everybody can not be a suspect. Social media is more than hello and have you eaten. It's more than sharing memes and jokes It's more than twerking. It's more than *haters gonna die! It's more than showing your six packs! It's more!..

Normally before heading to work I always make sure I have everything as in every eatable for the day with me. Reason is, after battling with ulcer for years and being ignorant of it, and after taking some measures and being healed by God, I decided to be conscious of my health because heaven help those who help themselves. If it's my fruit day, I buy all my favorite fruits and water before boarding any bus. I may not that opportunity to go out once I enter office But this day, I had no money except my tfare so I was hoping on using the ATM or POS machine once I get to work and also wouldn't want to miss the first bus. As God may have it, I met one of my customers. I love buying fruit from her , she sells the best and fresh fruit. She is dark and from one part of igbo laikdat. If you know ikeja under bridge , you may know her. She sells close to close to akowonjo road and she is very neat. She was surprised when I greeted her and passed. "Aaah , nne kekwanu, see as you dey shine. You no go buy fruit today"? She asked with curiosity. I told her I didn't have money at the moment unless I can get a POS nearby. She smiled and asked the fruits I wanted I told her. She package them and handed them to me and her last statement surprised me "Shey you want to run away with my money, ha, I trust you nah, are you going to run away because of 250, even say na thousand sef, abeg take , you can give it to me tomorrow or any day". ===================================== Someone I met online sent me some money to buy stuff for her and send to her. I have never met her in person till today. I have asked several people especially those who I have never met but chose to do online transactions with me, why they trust people easily and the responses are always the same. "You have never given me room for doubts. If you are not intentional about what you do here and offline, my dear you better be! Even though betrayers don't have mark on their foreheads. Am writing this because someone complained that he can not do any business online because everybody is a suspect. Buyers are careful this days because of scammers. Everybody can not be a suspect social media is more than hello and have you eaten. It's more than sharing memes and jokes It's more than twerking. It's more than *haters gonna die! It's more than showing your six packs!..

People are saying a whole lot of things about life. A lot of opinion about life but it's high time you shut your ears to things the world says and concentrate on the things the word of God says about you! God made you in His image and He calls you Beautiful! He says you are a winner. The world says you are a looser, but God says you are a WINNER. You are called a nonentity, He says you an ENTITY They see a failure, God sees a Progress. They see the present, He smiles because HE has seen a bright Future. They says marriage is a Scam, God says YOURS is DIFFERENT. On whose report shall we Believe? The report of men? Definitely NOT! Shut your ears to the things the world says! Give no damn, Be focused!..

An unhealthy relationship is draining and most of the time we the ladies are always at the receiving end. So we should be able to look at this signs . Though one maybe blinded by love . _________________________ ✓TRUST trust is the most important factor to consider in any relationship. If you can't trust someone enough, just keep that person at a distance. No negative feeling but you have to protect your emotions. Thing is, lack of trust can lead to untimely death especially to the ladies . Lack of trust can make you restless. ✓Another factor is control Truth remains that we ought to be submissive but when all your move is being controlled by your partner, you don't have a say, no decision. He tells you what to do, what to wear, they threaten you, my dear, it's time! ✓Physical Abusive can not be overlooked. A man who hits you is not deserving of you. You are in love and want to stay , that's not love but foolishness. That's a sign no matter how many times he regrets it. I could go on and on but just like the scripture says that our spirit beareth us witness that you are the sons and daughters of God, same is applicable to our instincts. What are the things he does you are not comfortable with but ignorantly accept because of love?..