EMERGENCY!!! How to save your life during an emergency I visited a friend in the hospital today, suddenly there was so much noise coming from outside, I rushed out to know what the ruckus was all about. I saw red! Blood!!!, so much blood on the entrance of the hospital?. A woman covered in blood with cloth barely covering her body was on a stretcher and was being pushed into the hospital. Some documents had to be signed by her next of kin before an operation can be carried out. God bless the good man who deposited some money and begged the hospital management to try their best. Preparations were made in earnest as the nurses prepared for the operation. According to eye witness, the young lady had a head collision with a heavy duty truck. Apparently, the driver travelled through the night and was feeling sleepy. What insolence! If you're feeling sleepy, why don't you you make a stop, rest awhile, get something to eat before commencing your journey. Why sleep on the steering and endanger the lives of innocent individuals? The driver died on the spot and the lady's life is was in a critical condition. Another man entered the premises, with a big bag partly covered in blood, which turned out to be some of the things they could savage from the lady's car. One of the nurses took her phone and tried contacting her people. To no avail as the password made it impossible. I made a suggestion that the emergency information should be used to do it, unfortunately, there was no emergency information. Why now? I can remember when this information started circulating.... Put your emergency information,put your emergency information. Yet some people will not hear or they will keep postponing it. Is your emergency information intact? Don't wait for your village people to visit you before you put it. Do it now, like now!!! Putting your emergency information is very important incase something happens to you in a strange place, your family can easily be contacted. It mustn't necessarily be family, just someone that can be trusted and has your best interest at heart. Someone that can be available when they are needed to intercede on your behalf. And it's not rocket science, just follow these simple steps and you are done? 1.Click on the "emergency call" in front of your phone, it's just in front, you can see it immediately you open your phone.(Not with fingerprints) but with the power button by the side of your phone. 2. Then double tap the emergency information you will see above. 3. Click on the pen icon there, it will take you to your settings. 4. There, we have the info and contact information, you have to fill in the info details which consists of questions like Name, address, genotype etc Just input the one you like and feel comfortable with sharing. 5. Then, go over to "contacts" and add the names of people who can be available on your rainy day. Please do not add the name of your elder brother that stays in lagos while you live in Awka. You are free to add as many as you wish to. Ces Fini!!! Where you expecting something else? So, if yours isn't intact, fix it now. Remember, Tomorrow is not assured. But we live and move by the Grace of God while doing the needful to avoid complications. I'm Chinaza Nnabuenyi, your Defi friend..

DEAR 20 SOMETHING, YOU WILL UNRAVEL BEAUTIFULLY Don't be afraid to slow down until the noise vanishes. Don't try to avoid the silence that will fill the room when you're reflecting on who you know you can be. Don't shrink back from what you will find within yourself. Remember that your strength has been designed to meet a need that this world has and your weaknesses have been included to keep you humble and dependant on God. You will not figure it out all at once because you're changing everyday. But don't be afraid to try and fail, making several attempt at something is the first step to mastery. Keep learning and evolving. Life is not as bad as you often think it is, you're simply unraveling. You're unlearning old patterns and way of being. You're letting go of habits and thought processes that does not align with where you're going. You're becoming someone you've never met before and when there are few reference point on your journey, it's easy to feel alone. Being alone is not necessarily a bad thing. Meditate on Psalm 139:16 Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed. And in Your book they all were written, The days fashioned for me, When as yet there were none of them. Don't put off for tomorrow what can be done today. Scriptures admonishes you to seek God in the days of your youth. Christ is more than a way to escape hell. He is wisdom for how to live our days. He is the purpose for our existence. He is a rail guard to prevent us from living life we only grow to deeply regret and feel ashamed of. He is peace when the storms of life comes crashing against us. To truly enjoy relationship of any kind, you have to allow yourself to heal. Don't be embarrassed that you need grace but don't be quick to make yourself the victim and others villains. Access yourself honestly and take responsibility where necessary. Please take it easy. There's nothing wrong with being different but if you don't fit in with a particular crowd, there's absolutely no need to force it. At the right time, your own tribe will come. These are people who grow into safe places with you, people who with conversation or meeting make the world feel right again. ~ Ezinne Zara..