Don't force yourself on people,don't leave a lifestyle just to fit in,inorder for you to belong to a social class.you may end up living a borrowed lifestyle which might in return speak against who you really are and what you are capable of! You have something special,something unique even money itself cannot buy,something that sets you aside from the rest;Is just about sitting down and asking yourself this question "WHO AM I?".See yourself working towards who you are?and what you really want to be(Purpose). Realize that the importance you place on yourself is absolutely,what you get in return...never fight for anything,allow things to work and flow the way is meant to be...what is really yours,will definitely come to stay but only if you live your life the right way.Everyother thing will fall in place Just be you