You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won't mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever.... connections are made with the heart, not the tongue...

Brethren, he that observe the rain will not attend church service today but he that ignore the rain will worship @ his feet this morn. If the rain can't stop you from going to market let the rain not stop. "The ultimate measure of a man is not when he stands in the moment of comfort & convenience but when he stands in the moment of challenge & controversy" Martin Luther king. So be in the church next 30mins...

20 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP Singles or would be couples this days are facing serious challenge to know whether they are in the right Relationship, that is very necessary and important considering so many relationship woes, heartbreak etc we are been confronted with everyday of our existence. But to know if one is in the right relationship isn't rocket science. Though not magical, it is very possible to know. As I always say, we can all be right if we do the right thing. Consider the following checklist; 1. God's will. This is very key.Its not about your will but His. Whether you chose him or her and bring him or her to God or you pray through to receive, you must be sure you are doing His will. God still speaks, we must discover the way He communicates, he's a dynamic God. In knowing his will neutrality and objectivity is very key. Neutrality is simple " ladies close your legs" and guys "zip up". Objectivity is when you are not biased or don't have a predetermined answer. 2. God is the center of it. This is more than praying, it is about obeying the commandments of God concerning Relationship. 3. Sound conviction. This should be mutual. A situation where both partners are deeply convinced to be together. 4. Mutual love. Where love is not one sided. 5. Well defined. The Relationship has a goal which is Marriage. 6. Mutual commitment to the Relationship. 7. Mutual respect of each others decision. 8. The caring is mutual and not one sided. 9. There is high level of understanding between them. They understand the place of leisure time and time for serious spiritual exercise. 10. They are ready to talk about anything; their past, present and future. 11. Agreement concerning the matter of sex. 12. Both have a picture of how their Marriage would be and can't wait to get started. 13. They carry their parents and other concerned people along and most importantly, their pastors for guidance and counseling. 14. They both love God. No pretence. 15. They both attends meetings together eg conference or seminars on Relationship, Marriage, Personal development, business etc. 16. There is mutual trust, no cheating or side chicks. 17. The two love birds demonstrate mutual tolerance for each other. 18. There is mutual agreement on important issues eg number of children in marriage, matter of sex, finance, career, extended family management, friends management etc. 19. They both knows how to settle their issues amicably when there is mistake. 20. The two are best of friends. No secrets, transparency is the watchword. Dear singles, take a look at all these signs if your Relationship is lacking all of these, then you have a lot to do. It's not too late to make the necessary adjustments. Have a good foundation to avoid stories that touches the heart. The journey start..

If we are not allowed to deal with small problems, we will be destroyed by slightly larger ones. When we come to understand this, we live our lives not avoiding problems, but welcoming them them as challenges that will strengthen us so that we can be victorious in the future. #Be #hopefulme..