SAYING YES!! We all like to think that "saying no" is what most people or better still, we, find hard to do. Allow me to shock you.. In as much saying no to most things we say yes to is something we all should learn to do, understand that saying yes to some certain things we ignore would automatically settle the problem of having to learn to day no or resist those things. Let's say, you do not want to continue that relationship but you keep falling each time he makes more promises even though you know it's not really for "yourself" but just to "make him happy". Now, instead of trying so hard to say No and watching yourself suffer why not learn to say YES to the fact that, Baby girl, you need to have a life. You are entitled to have a choice and dream of your own. You ought notto loose yourself at the expense of someone else. You deserve better and that better is not in your current position. And the "Truth shall set you free.." When you realize that saying yes to things you denied yourself is the real no you've been wanting to say so badly then saying no won't be a big deal afterall! So, everyone let's not overlook the importance of saying YES and let's remember that saying yes is not just a word but acknowledging and accepting the truth of things as they are🙂 Say YES today! (PS: don't mind the video😌..just listen to the words or better still read the write up) Thank you ♥️ #NIIFA'sDiary #TruthfulTuesday #thelionesshub #facts #wisewords..

WELL BEING Sometimes our definition of well being is being limited to things we feel are more relevant like our physical or bodily health, financial stability, spiritual growth and others, but we forget that that doesn't create balance in our total and complete well being. We should understand that no part functions without the other,just as the body can't function without the heart, and we should try to gain 360° wholeness: physically, emotionally, psychologically, mentally, spiritually and financially. Identifying and accepting a fault in this state of our well being brings us one step closer to getting solutions. So, do not ignore them and wrap it up under "Men should be men..we don't feel or express or seek help or take corrections", "Women should cover, take it all in and accept their fates in circumstances they find themselves in".. Stop the facades! Focus on a complete, balance, healthy well being today even if it means taking a break, letting go and moving on. You are very important to us and to the world..🙂 #NIIFA'sDiary..

TAKING REAL OPPORTUNITIES Many lie to themselves that real opportunities come when everything we believe we ever needed to succeed are in place and at our disposal. This has made so many young minds to grow weary and many strong bones to grow weak. Nigeria @60 should be a wake up call to our youths... The sooner we realize that real opportunities come when we utilize what we have within our reach at the moment to give ourselves a better advantage over others or to move ourselves forward, then the bigger picture begins to unveil. Stop waiting for favourable conditions to arrive at your doorsteps, for there can never be an end to the issues in the world; rather go get yourself a favourable condition and by getting yourself that condition it means you need a whole lot of optimism, patience, hardwork and pesevervance. So, quit complaining and playing the blame game and take up real opportunities of self discovery, improvement, development, discipline and skill utilization today. Let's make #nigeria great again!✊..

TRUE COLOURS What comes to our minds when we hear someone say" I go show you my true colours oo cause this isn't my real colour" Why are true colours always associated with negative sides or characters? Well, I'd like us to have a change of mind on that. True colours shouldn't be those sides people never expect from us and we think is best shown at our worst moments. We all have different personalities and shades but that doesn't make them count as our true colours as long as it doesn't bring out the best in us. True colours are meant to be beautiful like the rainbow and spark life and there are many ways to identify and embrace these true colours: 1.It could mean being bold and fearless 2.Stepping out from your usual, stationary zone 3.Chasing dreams you long lost or kept aside 4.Being optimistic and hopeful 5.Exhbiting healthy attitudes and fruits of the spirit if put biblically 6.Staying true to yourself and others at all points I choose to relate my true colours with positive attributes, so can you.❤️ #NiifaDaires..

Lets see beneath your "beautiful" Let's see beneath your "perfect" Take it off and let's see the "inside" It's alright to drop all those weights.. It doesn't hurt to step out bare sometimes; not at all. Reality is better than a glorified illusion and worse off the ones we fail to tell ourselves or don't allow ourselves feel or accept. Let's embrace truth and therefore flood ourselves with inner light and peace... ..

Please dearest readers, Don't make fake promises nor speak out of momentary emotions.. Build things with no intention of laying right foundations, create a whimpy trust and feed doubts, lies and regret to people who believed you and in you Stay original and stick to those words you made to them and they saw as true; come rain, come sunshine Let your ye be your ye and nay your nay Not circumstantially based... #niifa❤️..