MINDSET: With time, i have gained a little understanding that some of our so-called friendships were based on our mindset... Most times our choice of partners of the opposite sex is usually based on our mindset towards them, probably due to what we've heard or seen about them on social media or elsewhere and the aftermath is usually nothing to write home about. You meet someone online, after going through his/her pictures and posts, you jump into conclusions that this is who he/she is and therefore every conversation with such a person boils down to what you have in mind, which is almost always negative; in the long run when you discover that's not who he/she is, you instantly withdraw yourself from the friendship. Sometimes we need to evaluate our friendships... We need to find out the motives of those who seek to be friends with us. That's why a guy or lady you meet today after weeks or months everything changes and there is an abrupt halt in the friendship. We need to be conscious of those whom we allow into our lives... Why start a friendship with someone cuz you wish to satisfy your sexual urge? What happens when the urge is gone? why create such a negative impression about yourself when you know that mood is only temporary? What becomes of the friendship after the urge must have died down? When you've successfully created a negative impression about yourself, it becomes difficult for others to see you for who you truly are, other than the you they picture in their mind... WHAT_NEXT? Obiaka chidiebere