One of the problem we have in life is the kind of friends we have. During my time in university, I meant friends who thinking is (let go and flex, how many girlfriend do you have, which one is the latest cloths, and other rubbish things). When I start to roll with them, they influence me (is easy for bad to over come the good), I started doing like them which made me to forget who I wanted to be. Thank God I went for one seminar and that was where I got my real self back. Why am saying this is for those who have not jam this bad friends to keep their eyes open and never allow them. Don't even try to change them because you may end up like them in the process. Choose the right friends and see your vision moving fast.