Hopeful Me! Label: AsIBeganToDiscoverMyself Category: Article - 12th May, 2017
While I was a growing up I decided to learn most social skills I saw people around me exhibit. Maybe I wasn't born with them and perhaps I could still learn them, this I will always say to myself. I didn't want to look awkward in social gatherings. I never wanted to act weird or rather allow people notice am already the weird type. I just wanted to fit in and look normal like every other person. Then I tried copying how people related with people and how people responded to certain social situations. And whenever I don't meet up to those social standards, I start to feel very inadequate. Meeting people, making friends, attending social functions, relating to the opposite sex, choice of style and fashion etc now looked so much uneasy for me. I found it difficult combining what I wanted with what I felt the society wanted from me. I now saw myself living a life that was not mine. Trying to become someone else and actually wasting the person I really was. I literally lost my uniqueness trying to fit into places where I was meant to stand out. But As I Began To Discover Myself, I came to appreciate my awkwardness, weirdness and dumbness. I found out I was different from everyone around. I was unique and I just needed to work on that. I now started seeing and living life differently. Today, I have improved in so many aspects of life and am more concerned with investing in myself, pursuing my dreams and adding value to lives of people around me. I have found love and care in the circle of my friends and family. Without being like every other person, people could still appreciate me for being me. I have found UNIQUENESS. So I encourage you to stick with what is right about you and just work on the necessary ones. Spend time discovering yourself and also find a way to be hope to your family and a blessing to this world. And always remember that, "becoming unique in life is not actually becoming a different person but your ability to discover yourself the more determines your uniqueness" YOU ARE UNIQUE. #AsIBeganToDiscoverMyself "FINDING UNIQUENESS" By Johnson Crystal Kalu @Hopeful Me
Johnson Crystal Kalu
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