Youthful stage is very important in our generation now. The world is becoming hotter and bitter for many as the days goes by, on the same note, there are many others who are not Moved because they have adequately prepared themselves before time. Life is not a field for players but a battle field for all human soldiers. Who are these soldiers?? They are you and me. Hence you are existing here on earth, u are entitled to fight as a warrior. Remember the Bible says take ye the shield of faith wherewith ye shall be able to defeat all the fairy darts of the devil. If the Bible recommends your to take a shift it then means there is a battle to be fought,and the soldiers for the battle is you and I. Just like in marriage when u are not adequately prepared u have breakdown on the way which often leads to divorce. Why many are not married yet. 1:God have seen that you're not yet ready for marriage. Crying to God for husband or wife is like you telling God I am ready to take another brand new responsibility,i am ready to accept this person the way he or she is, it means you are ready to be a help meet, a provider, ready to be a servant, standing out to be a cook, a cleaner, an adviser,a listener,you are telling God you are ready to be a sacrificial lamb just for a particular person,family,purpose and even to an unknown and unseen generation. What marriage is not. Marriage is not all about the wedding gown, remember the gown was not called the marriage gown, have you bothered to ask yourself why it is called a wedding gown and not marriage gown? It is simply because wedding is just a ceremonial gathering that has limited time and so is the gown,the gown can only be worn for hours not days, weeks or years and the wedding cannot last beyond a day or even last for a complete day but half, wedding only lasts for hours after which you now walk into the real school of marriage. Marriage has no permanent gown,the gown connotes graduation day which can only be death. The need for mutual prayers before marriage happens. When two people are in a relationship even God expects them to agree on one thing spiritually and physically, if they both desires to marry, they both must be specific and have the same tone in the spiritual and physical. Reasons for unanswered prayers before marriage. 1:There is no spiritual fellowship between the two partners. John 15:7here if the other person is praying for money and the other for marriage which will God answer?two the Bible says can't walk together except they agree. Amos3:3.when you pray make sure the both of you have the same prayer points and motives,remember God is not an authour of confusion .Since the both of you are planning to become overwhelmed both of you are therefore expected to also have the same voice in the spiritual realm. For example when the two of you kneel to pray on different places but on the same prayer points God hears the voices and then smiles to himself and then will establish the marriage because the two of u have come to an agreement. Genesis 2:18,Ecclasiastics 4:9-11.one will chase a thousand but two will chase ten thousands. The first step to receive answer for marriage from God, the two must work at becoming one not even twins. Until you start becoming one u will not be better than two. Learn to bear the same name and share the same vision. Deuteronomy 32:30. God bless u all. Miss Johnson Blessing Ngozichukwu.