Sometimes, we think it's difficult to find new friends. So we struggle, fight for and nurture friendships that are harmful to us. MY ADVICE Make new friends, important ones that add value to your life, not those who take from you. You have a great personality. Do not limit yourself to friends that hurt you, who do not love or care about you.. Most people think to themselves 'I'm a nobody and no one can possibly want to be friends with me', you therefore stick to people who do not want you or value your amazing personality. Dissolve such friendships!!! Friends should love you as much as you love them, stand, support you when you fall, and help you develop your self esteem.. Thank you for reading..