By Chinny Ivy Ugwueze-ikonne
28th November, 2018 | 1053 Views | 0 Comments
Label: The life of a lazy writer
28th November, 2018 | 1053 Views | 0 Comments
Our attitude
Category: MotivationLabel: The life of a lazy writer
Nobody owes u anything.
This is the truth and the earlier we get it into our heads,the better for us.
The moment we have this mentality,that is the moment we stop tying our happiness to people and live happier.
Nobody owes you anything.Just because someone is in a higher position than you are,doesn't mean you are entitled to anything.
Just because someone is your friend,doesn't mean the person must be of help to you all the time.
Sometimes,we see people who pick offence when someone who they thought will help them doesn't.
No one really owes you anything. Even the people you have helped before,they still don't owe you anything.
The reason why we are sometimes sad,is because most times,we expect people we have helped sometime,to also help us when we are in need. It doesn't always happen that way.Sometimes,help doesn't really come from people we expect.
I also understand that the reason we feel this way is because we are willing to do much for people and we expect them to be that way too.
Maybe,just once,let us be able to have the mentality that nobody owes anything.That things may not work out the way we actually expect.
Just because your Uncle or Aunt is rich,doesn't mean they are always going to help you.
Just because you have a best friend,doesn't mean they are always going to be there with you.
Most times,it's not because they don't want to help.Most times,they might not be able to help because of one reason or the other.They too have their own problems,they have their own needs too.They might not be in the very possible situation to help out. What is our reaction when this happens?
Our reactions in these situations may not be really nice.
Today,I just want tell that if you have the mentality that nobody owes you anything,you will notice a great change in us when people disappoint us. First of all,we are not even supposed to keep our hope in humans,because they will always fail us.
Love without expecting any in return.
Give without expecting any in return.
Be your better self and stop making people,pillars of your happiness.
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https://www.ahopefulme.com/blog/118-Our-attitude
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Chinny Ivy Ugwueze-ikonne
Writer at Hopeful Me
Aba, NigeriaI am Hopeful!
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