So,these days,everyone is in a kind of relationship. Its either an open relationship or a closed relationship (whatever that means). So,some of them engage into some stuffs that only married people are allowed to do.They call it enjoyment. So because everyone is doing it doesn't mean it's the right thing. That aside. During this so-called enjoyment,these people especially the teenagers fail to protect themselves and avoid getting pregnant. So, one time,they are enjoying and Boom,a baby arrives. The irresponsible guys are always the first to run away or give the suggestion to abort the baby. So,the mother is left alone to cater for the kid,which in most cases,may be impossible. They feel they have no other choice than to abandon the baby. So sad that these days,the motherless homes are filled with children who were abandon by their naive and careless mothers. Most times,we get caught up in our daily problems that we don't even think about the children in the motherless homes,so who caters for the children? Shouldn't motherless babies' homes be for children whose mothers died after their birth and have no other relative to cater for them? I don't think it should be fill with children that was abandon by their careless mothers. I think it's wrong for you to be enjoying and when the baby arrives,you leave it for someone else to cater for. Before bringing a child into the world,you should have security (financial security,mental security etc.). So you are enjoying with a guy who doesn't know what his future looks like or a guy who is fighting for his future,then you expect him to magically be ready for this kind of change or responsibility? So false,they will run. Then you dump the child for other people to train and run off to live your life? Very big lie.God is watching. God really looks out for these children because growing up,they might not find it easy,so they strive so much and God blesses them. If you look critically at the unsuccessful people in the world,you find out they are either people who had parents and never appreciated the fact or people who refuse to be successful. These children make it in life because God watches out for them. So you might think you have ran away,don't worry,gradually,everything will catch up with you. #the life of a lazy writer